One Email Away: How to Find Mentors & Open New Doors
Welcome to the Dream.Career Newsletter!
A question I’m often asked is how to find mentors. In this issue, we’ll explore that topic and show how it ties into creating opportunities for your future. By applying the lessons shared here, you can start unlocking new and exciting opportunities right away!
A Simple Realization
Most people in the digital world have an email address. This means you could be one email away from reaching someone you admire.
This realization has encouraged me to “plant more seeds” by reaching out to people when I have a question or something meaningful to share.
While many emails may go unanswered, the few that receive responses can change your opportunities and the course of your life.
Two Patterns I’ve Noticed
- As I’ve gained more business success, more people respond to my emails.
- Being young is an advantage. Older, more successful individuals often have a soft spot for helping the next generation find their way.
The Key to Standing Out
To break through the noise, you need to be thoughtful, respectful, and intentional with your message.
This is not about sending generic “I’d love to pick your brain” emails. It’s about showing that you’ve done your homework and that you care about making a genuine connection.
It’s Not “Mentor/Mentee”
The best “mentor” relationships are those where both parties gain something.
Think about what you bring to the table. Even if you’re young and inexperienced, showing that someone’s work has deeply impacted you can be enough.
Expressing genuine curiosity and a willingness to learn can make you stand out and motivate someone to want to help you succeed.
Real Example #1
A few months ago, I was listening to a 6-hour podcast featuring a British billionaire. In the final three minutes, he shared something that resonated deeply with me.
Instead of letting that moment pass, I researched his email and wrote to him, explaining how his words impacted me.
Result: Twenty minutes later, he replied. This led to a friendship, an invitation to an exclusive event, and connections that opened new doors.
Real Example #2
While traveling in Groningen, a small Dutch city, I wanted to connect with local entrepreneurs. After some research, I emailed the Professor of Entrepreneurship at the local university.
Result: I was invited to speak to 200 students about entrepreneurship. Some of these students became close friends, creating a ripple effect of new opportunities.
Your Challenge This Week
Think of 7 people you admire and want to connect with.
Don’t aim too high (e.g., Taylor Swift may not respond). Instead, focus on individuals who aren’t overwhelmed with messages daily, such as:
- An author whose work resonated with you
- An entrepreneur doing something interesting
- A local business owner whose store you love
Out of 7 people, 6 may not respond. But that one response could change your life. Remember, rejection is part of the process—every “no” brings you closer to the right “yes.”
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